Friday, 12 February 2016

SELF DISCOVERY CHAPTER # 3

Self Discovery




SELF DISCOVERY CHAPTER # 03

A journey from ordinary to extraordinary

By SHAHID KHAN AFRIDI (Motivational speaker & Trainer)

OBSERVE PEOPLE AROUND YOU
Observe people 

Hi guys! How are you? Hope you will be fine and enjoying each and every moment of life. I am here with a new chapter in the journey of self discovery. In the previous chapter I explain how you will observe yourself. I am sure you develop some observation skills by practicing the previous techniques. You learn how to observe and where to observe. Now you are in the position that you start knowing yourself a little bit. Try to consistently observe yourself so that you discover yourself as soon as possible. As Charles Darwin quote that “I am turned into a sort of machine for observing facts and grinding out conclusions”
In this chapter you have to observe the people around you. Remember only you have to observe, you have no right to judge anybody.

“If you want to judge me make sure that you are perfect”


So nobody is perfect. First you have to make yourself perfect after that you can judge people but you know perfection leads to imperfection. So try not to judge people only observe them.

I love reading people. I really enjoy watching , observing and being able to figure out a person, the reason they wore that dress, the reason they smell the way they do”

Why it is necessary to observe people around us?
We are social animals. We cannot isolate ourselves. We have to live among the people. Their behavior, attitude, conversation, actions, and thoughts influence our life. So we need to observe them.

1.      To know different kind of people
2.      To know how they react to a particular situation
3.      To know their core of thoughts
4.      To learn from them
5.      To avoid repetition of mistakes made by different people
6.      To observe successful people and to know the reasons why they are successful, happy and joyous.
7.      To observe failed people and to know why they are fail in certain field, also what are the reasons of their misery and depression
8.      To study different mind and physical bodies

To live a happy and prosper life you have to know different people, so that it becomes easy for you to handle them and deal with them. Most of us are depressed and tensed due to the behavior of people. So start observing people around you, know them, and have a wonderful life.
Thank you so much to be with me in this incredible journey, stay tuned and discover yourself. 

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